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Recent police incidents and arrests in Fredericksburg:

CHILD NEGLECT:

 Walmart, 1800 Carl D Silver Pkwy, 1/11 10:25 am.  A customer reported that he found an infant left unattended inside a vehicle in the parking lot.  The baby was crying and secured in a child restraint seat.  A few minutes after the officer arrived on the scene, the baby’s mother returned to the car.  The subsequent investigation revealed that the mother completed two separate shopping transactions in the store, leaving the infant in the vehicle for about thirty minutes.  Emma Okyere, 37, of Stafford was arrested for felony child neglect and incarcerated at the Rappahannock Regional Jail under a $1500 bond.   The infant was turned over to Child Protective Services and later released to a family member.  

 LARCENY:

 Walmart, 1800 Carl D Silver Pkwy, 1/11 2:00 am.  A Spotsylvania resident reported that a vehicle that had been loaned to her from an auto dealership was stolen from the parking lot while she was inside the store.  The keys were left inside the vehicle and police were not contacted about the theft until 11:00 am.  The investigating officer later determined that the vehicle was recovered by the Virginia State Police in Spotsylvania County during the early morning hours.  The investigation is ongoing.   

 ARRESTS:

 Bryan Hernandez, 18, of Spotsylvania was arrested for embezzlement.

 

HYDERABAD: Task Force sleuths raided a gambling den and apprehended seven persons at Chilakalguda on Monday.

Acting on a tip-off, police raided a house where a card game was going on.

Following the raid, police apprehended seven persons, including organiser T Mallikarjun and gamblers, K Thirupathi, W Kishore Kumar and N Santosh Kumar of Chilkalguda, S Peanty of Gandhi Nagar, M Narsing Goud of Lower Tank Bund and A Sudhaker of Amberpet. Police seized Rs 1.35 lakh in cash from their possession.

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Midi-Pyrenees News Cheap last minute tickets for the snow trains

One of the most popular pastimes in France during the winter season is of course heading to the mountains (either the Alpes or the Pyrenees) to go skiing or take part in other winter activities. There are peak times to try and avoid, or expect to pay more and find less accommodation, such as the February school holidays.

However, the end of January and March can be a good times to travel to the mountainous regions of France from Paris, with a good availability of snow trains. The risk of going in March of course is that the snow conditions may not be as good, but this is countered by the lower cost of accommodation and the quieter slopes.

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While in Paris, why not take some time to explore the city? Take s look at Guide2Paris for up to date information on Parisevents and things to do.

Rail Europe are currently offering up to 75% off winter trains from Paris if travelling before middle of February. As an example, Paris to Toulouse is being offered at only pound;23 single on selected dates. From Toulouse, the TER network connects to stations close to resorts, such as Montrejeau for Bagneres de Luchon and Tarbes for La Mongie, the largest ski resort in the Midi-Pyrenees.

You can book trains to Toulouse on the Rail Europe website.The discount applies for tickets booked before 31st January 2012 for travel between 20th January and 16th February 2012. Other terms and conditions are given on the website.

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FREDERICKSBURG- A woman shopping at a Fredericksburg Walmart was arrested Thursday because police said she left her baby in her vehicle while in the store.

Emma Okyere, 37, of Stafford, was arrested for felony child neglect just before 10:30 am at the Walmart at 1800 Carl D. Silver Parkway in Fredericksburg.

A customer reported that he found a crying infant left unattended inside a vehicle in the parking lot. The baby was in a child restraint seat, police said.

A few minutes after the officer arrivedat the store, the babys mother returned to the car. Police found that Okyere completedtwo separate shopping transactions in the store, leaving the infant in the vehicle for about 30 minutes.

Okye was incarcerated at the Rappahannock Regional Jail under a $1,500 bond. The infant was turned over to Child Protective Services and later released to a family member, police said.

Actress Asin is making her debut on TV. Asin will host a TV show ?Superstar Santa? on UTV.

Participating in Superstar Santa on UTV Star allows me to interact with the audience directly. The programme is on friendship issues and I value true friendship, Asin said.

The show deals with human relationships and its complexities. Spanning over 10 episodes, the show will feature one celebrity each week giving it all to solve the issue at hand. Each of these cases would deal with issues relating to friends, families and even romantic relationships. The show is a weekly, one hour episode wherein every celebrity gets to choose between 2 or 3 cases.

Sankranti is supposed to bethe festival of the Sun God–regarded as the symbol of divinity and wisdom.However, in Krishna and many other areas of India, the shining moments of this annual January 14 festival of the harvest is cockfights and gambling, according to theDeccan Chronicle.

In discussing the January 14, 2012 “celebration,” theTimes of Indiareports that cockfight betting in India is expected to reach $40 million this year, “Come Sankranti…is all set to raise a toast to roosters. And though there is nothing attractive about the bloodsport in which cocks get wounded and killed, that is unlikely to prevent betting in cock fighting from crossing the Rs 200 crore [$40 million] mark this year. Last year, that figure stood at Rs 100 crore.”

The usual fiery Indian opposition parties forget their differences during this event, with leaders of all political parties coming together and joining hands “for the successful conduct of the cockfights.”

The organizers usually select two or three mango orchards for the cockfights, according to the report, as thousands of people from neighboring villages and districts come to witness the cockfights and, mainly, for the betting. The cockfights go on from January 13 to 15, with over a thousand birds killed in bloody bouts.

It doesn’t appear that cockfighting and gambling were included in the ancient Sankranti celebration. Sankranti is theSanskritword inIndian Astrologywhich refers to the transmigration of the Sun from oneR?shi(sign of thezodiac) to another. The Makara Sankaranti festival commemorates the transition of the Sun intoMakaraRashi(Capricorn) on its celestial path, which occurs about 21 days after the Winter Solstice.It is believed that any auspicious and sacred ritual can be sanctified in any Hindu family from this day onward.http://festivals.iloveindia.com/makar-sankranti/

Although there are police warnings, an organizer stated Believe it or not, people of Godavari district are ready to bet their immovable property, A majority of the punters say cock fighting is a custom that should not be viewed as gambling.”This is a traditional sport.We are only following the sport, not indulging in betting, said S/ Raju, a former peoples representative from Palakollu in Bhimavaram mandal.http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/hyderabad/Cock-fight-bets-likely-to-cross-Rs-200-cr/articleshow/11406957.cms

In a January 10, 2008, article inThe Hindu,the State police agency reported it had “… initiated stringent action against the sport,” and pointed out that, “apart from the aspect of cruelty to the birds involved in the cockfight, in which the fowl are often grievously injured or killed, another issue that necessitates police intervention is the gambling in the name of cockfights and the threat posed by gamblers to law and order.”

Police officials say that the cockfights often involves betting rackets, and the losers frequently engage in violence forcing the police to take action based on the Kerala Games Act.

The Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) district committee, demanded that police stop interfering in cockfighting, known as ‘kozhi kettu,’ as it is a part of the temple rituals.The police say they would not interfere if the cockfight is a low-key affair held at a temple.

Indian cockfighters have traditionally bred and fought Aseels (Asils), a multi-colored gamefowl noted for its pugnacity. The chicks often fight when they are just a few weeks old and mature roosters will fight to the death. Hens can also be very aggressive toward each other.As often is true of those animals favored for engagement in blood sports, Asils are generally very tame and trusting toward the humans who attach blades three- to four- inches longto their feet and throw them into a pit where they must kill or die.

Photo gallery taken on January 10, 2007 at the Poolavasa, Kerela, festival, at which approximately 1,500 roosters were fought to their deaths.http://www.lightstalkers.org/galleries/contact_sheet/11021


More than a hundred years ago, when the telephone was introduced, there was some hand-wringing over the social dangers that this new technology posed: increased sexual aggression and damaged human relationships. “It was going to bring down our society,” said Dr. Megan Moreno, a specialist in adolescent medicine at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. “Men would be calling women and making lascivious comments, and women would be so vulnerable, and we’d never have civilized conversations again.”

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In other words, the telephone provoked many of the same worries that more recently have been expressed about online social media. “When a new technology comes out that is something so important, there is this initial alarmist reaction,” Dr. Moreno said.

Indeed, much of the early research — and many of the early pronouncements — on social media seemed calculated to make parents terrified of an emerging technology that many of them did not understand as well as their children did.

Whether about sexting or online bullying or the specter of Internet addiction, “much social media research has been on what people call the danger paradigm,” said Dr. Michael Rich, a pediatrician and the director of the Center on Media and Child Health at Children’s Hospital Boston.

Though there are certainly real dangers, and though some adolescents appear to be particularly vulnerable, scientists are now turning to a more nuanced understanding of this new world. Many have started to approach social media as an integral, if risky, part of adolescence, perhaps not unlike driving.

Researchers are also looking to Facebook, Twitter and the rest for opportunities to identify problems, to hear cries for help and to provide information and support. Dr. Rich, who sees many teenagers who struggle with Internet-related issues, feels strongly that it is important to avoid blanket judgments about the dangers of going online.

“We should not view social media as either positive or negative, but as essentially neutral,” he said. “It’s what we do with the tools that decides how they affect us and those around us.”

Dr. Moreno’s early research looked at adolescents who displayed evidence of risky behaviors on public MySpace profiles, posting photos or statements that referred to sexual activity or substance abuse. E-mails were sent to those adolescents suggesting that they modify their profiles or make them private.

Girls were more likely to respond than boys, Dr. Moreno found, and sexual material was more likely than alcohol-related material to be removed.

Her current research, by contrast, approaches social media as a window, an opportunity to understand and improve both physical and mental health. In a study of the ways college students describe sadness in status updates on their Facebook profiles, she showed that some such expressions were associated with depression in students who completed clinical screening tests.

Since freshman year is a high-risk time for depression, many college resident advisers already try to use Facebook to monitor students, Dr. Moreno said. Perhaps it will be possible to help R.A.’s recognize red flags in the online profiles of their charges.

Still, she acknowledged that this new strategy raised privacy concerns, asking, “How do you think about extending this to other at-risk groups in a way that still doesn’t feel like an invasion of privacy?” For example, can we help people in support groups take care of one another better through social media?

Going back and forth, as I do these days, between the worlds of academic pediatrics and academic journalism, I am struck by the focus in both settings on the potential — and the risks — of social media and on the importance of understanding how communication is changing.

Our children are using social media to accomplish the eternal goals of adolescent development, which include socializing with peers, investigating the world, trying on identities and establishing independence.

In 2011, the American Academy of Pediatrics Council on Communications and Media issued a clinical report, “The Impact of Social Media on Children, Adolescents and Families.” It began by emphasizing the benefits of social media for children and adolescents, including enhanced communication skills and opportunities for social connections.

“A large part of this generation’s social and emotional development is occurring while on the Internet and on cellphones,” the report noted.

Our job as parents is to help them manage all this wisely, to understand — and avoid — some of the special dangers and consequences of making mistakes in these media. (We can expect the same kind of gratitude that we get for all of our guidance: mixed, of course, with an extra helping of contempt if our technical skills are not up to theirs.)

“Rather than taking a one-size-fits-all harm model, one of the questions parents need to ask is, ‘How is this going to interact with my child’s personality?’ ” said Clay Shirky, who teaches about social media at New York University. “Digital media is an amplifier. It tends to make extroverts more extroverted and introverts more introverted.”

And both parents and researchers need to be sure they understand the subtleties of the ways teenagers interpret social media.

At a 2011 symposium on the Internet and society, two researchers presented information on how teenagers understand negative talk on the Internet. What adults interpret as bullying is often read by teenagers as “drama,” a related but distinct phenomenon.

By understanding how teenagers think about harsh rhetoric, the researchers suggested, we may find ways to help them defend themselves against the real dangers of online aggression.

The problems of cyberbullying and Internet overuse are serious, and the risks of making mistakes online are very real. But even those who treat adolescents with these problems are now committed to the idea that there are other important perspectives for researchers — or parents, or teachers — looking at the brave new universe in which adolescence is taking place.

Social media, said Dr. Rich, “are the new landscape, the new environment in which kids are sorting through the process of becoming autonomous adults — the same things that have been going on since the earth cooled.”

Stop illegal gambling.

That was the order of Gov. Alfredo Marantilde;on Jr. to police officers of Negros Occidental yesterday during their New Years call on him at the Capitol in Bacolod City.

The governor said illegal gambling, especially jai-alai, continues to be prevalent in various parts of the province.

Senior Supt. Allan Guisihan, Negros Occidental police director, assured the governor that the police will continue to go after illegal gambling operators in the province. He said illegal gambling in Negros Occidental is not as massive as before but kangaroo (or guerilla)-type operations continue.

In a dialog with the police chiefs of Negros Occidental led by Guisihan, Marantilde;on also urged them to help make Negros Occidental peaceful, lovable and livable so more visitors will come to the province.

The governor also instructed the police to take legal action against persons driving under the influence of alcohol, which, on numerous occasions, had caused deaths on the highway.

He also stressed the need to act against overloaded cane trucks that are damaging the highways of the provinces.

Guisihan said he would tackle the governors traffic and overloading concerns during their police command conference, and with the Land Transportation Office, to step up their response.

Guisihan informed the governor that in 2011 the police in Negros Occidental reduced the crime rate by 40 percent compared to the previous year.

But there is more room for improvement and we will work to further reduce crimes in the province, Guisihan added.

He told the governor that among the matters hampering their operations was the lack of vehicles and gasoline. *CPG

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The Eugene home of Andy Traisman and his partner, Lola, is a study in relationships and transformation.

The same might be said for anything that is purposefully altered to better satisfy its users.

But this house, built in 1922 and subjected to a hodgepodge of alterations over the decades, ascended to its new, truly harmonious state only after relationships between spaces and uses were defined; problematic structural relationships solved; and human relationships nurtured during a major renovation fraught with stressful potential.

Human, structural relationships

Traisman, a middle-school teacher, bought the house eight years ago. Lola moved in earlier this year after the addition of a 350-square-foot master suite atop the once flat-roofed garage and a total renovation of the other 2,000 square feet of living space.

“Remodels in and of themselves can be hellacious, but we were also turning this from ‘my’ house to ‘our’ house,” Traisman reflects. “Because we were just moving in together, the scope of the project kept metamorphosing.”

One goal was clear from the outset: to build the bed and bath above the garage, which itself had been added to the two-story house — along with an upper-story bedroom and unfinished utility room below — by previous owners in the early 2000s.

“On top of the garage was just empty space,” Traisman says. “In the summer we’d put lawn furniture out there” to talk while enjoying sunrise-sunset views toward Hendricks Park on one side, the Coast Range on the other. “When I was buying the house, I wondered if it was plausible to put an addition on top. Nir thought about it and said, ‘yep.’”

“The main challenge was structural; the roof wasn’t going to carry it,” says architect and longtime friend Nir Pearlson, who was privy to some of those rooftop gatherings.

Pearlson signed on to design the project despite Traisman’s initial hesitation.

“Nir is like family, so I had reservations because I felt it might be too hard on the relationship,” Traisman says. “But he really wanted the job because of his relationship to us and to this house.”

Pearlson, working with general contractor Paul Allen (of Allen Co. Design It! Build It!) and structural designer Craig Lawrence, devised a solution that involved strategically placing new footings and posts with beams beneath the floor of the suite.

They also puzzled over ways to eke out usable space for the bed-bath unit, which is offset between the first and second levels of the house. For example, the corner formed by the upper wall and ceiling of the first-floor pantry is just below countertop level of the new bathroom. The vanity’s cabinet doors offer no clues to this space-saving configuration, though inside are shallow storage spaces that extend just a matter of inches before ending at the pantry’s outer wall.

“We mined space out of this house wherever we could,” Pearlson says. “One of the reasons we were limited in space is that Andy and Lola were adamant about having a deck here and a deck there,” he says, indicating the railed terraces on either side of the elevated suite. “I think it worked great.”

Relationships of space, color, light

Just as human and structural relationships required careful navigation throughout this project, relationships of the occupants to their environment were fully considered.

“We touched every corner of the house,” Pearlson says. “There were so many additions that were done in the past, so the whole notion was to unify everything and make it all work.”

Fixes, he says, included replacing a previously removed wall to turn an open dining room into an office; adding a door off the living room and new windows for light and indoor-outdoor connections; opening up a “funky” entryway vestibule and creating an obvious artery from there to the back of the house through the kitchen.

“The kitchen always bugged me,” says Pearlson, who lamented the awkwardly placed refrigerator along a partial wall that hemmed in the room. “I wanted to figure the kitchen out because it’s so central to the life of the house. I felt it was important to create this passage very clearly here,” he says, pointing along the line that now extends from the front door through to the stairway at the rear of the house, carried visually by the alignment of a new butcher-block kitchen island and row of hanging pendant lights.

Copious windows and vibrant, varied colors brighten the refreshed home. Twenty-seven different hues coat the interior and exterior in a rainbow of warm tones. At the junction between the dining room, kitchen and living room, rich red, yellow and orange shades converge harmoniously at wall corners — successful relationships made possible by Traisman’s countless paint-sampling trips to The Home Depot and consultations with painter Steve Derminer.

The once light-gray/sage-green interior now radiates color not only from the walls, but from artful accents including Leonie Daniels’ multi-hued mosaic backsplashes of recycled tile in the kitchen and master bath.

“I just lived with the previous owners’ taste for seven years,” Traisman says. “I wouldn’t have done all this if we weren’t moving in together. But Lola was coming into a new home …”

“And I needed color and light,” she interjects. “Part of the reason I didn’t want to move in earlier was because it felt so dark and cold.”

She and Traisman had to overcome some dark times during construction, too, including her unanticipated back surgery and the death of two older dogs. They say they’re thankful for how much Allen and his crews mitigated disruptions during the nine-month, $150,000-plus job, but still, Traisman says, “the project took on a different gravity after a while. There was nothing light about it.”

The lightness came afterward.

“Sometimes I’ll just sit in different places and watch how the light plays across the colors,” Lila ponders. “My favorite part is the light.”

“Depending on the leaves on the trees, the angle of the sun and the light dappling on the walls,” Traisman adds, “nothing ever looks the same twice.”

And that would seem to portend well for a long, happy and interesting relationship with this well-evolved home.

Staff writer Joel Gorthy can be contacted at sp.feedback@registerguard.com.