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Pastimes of Stone Harbor offers light fare, ice cream, candy and old-fashioned egg cream sodas.

Whatâ??s old is new again at one of Stone Harbors youngest businesses, a WiFi enabled coffeehouse that offers video game competitions, open-mic nights and board games.

Weve got a mix of activities that seems to appeal to everybody, said Yesenya Rolon, the morning manager at Pastimes of Stone Harbor. And, even with the range of stuff to do, its nice to see people chatting and coming together.

The cafÃ, which is open 7:30 am-10 pm daily, offers light fare for breakfast, lunch and dinner; scoops of loose candy; water ice and ice cream; old-fashioned egg cream sodas; and, of course, coffee.

Pitching itself as the newest family tradition in town, Pastimes, at the 336 96th St., seeks to engender a coffeehouse vibe with its living room-style setup, according to the owners.

We want people to come in, bring everyone along, and hang out for a while, said staff member Heather Scott.

Accessible bookshelves house magazines, books, and a variety board and card games, including Candy Land, Monopoly, Trouble and Uno. Local newspapers are set out on tables, and outlets are available for laptop users needing a charge while they surf the web.

The cabana section of the open floor plan offers a clear line of sight for parents in the main room and plenty of workspace for creative types.

Workers like Rolon and Scott offer arts and craft activities for youngsters.

The arts and crafts arent scheduled, but are always available, said Rolon, displaying four closets stocked with paints, crayons, sequins, buttons, tote bags begging to be decorated and mini-birdhouses that children can paint.

There is a set price for a base project â?? say, decorating a beach bucket or painting a wooden snake â?? but then we provide whatever the kids, or whoever, needs to complete their plan, she said.

Prices for most projects were less than $10.

The cafà also offers a range of scheduled entertainment and activities, from Wednesday night performances by local folk musician Barry Tischler to Wii bowling tournaments.

Its still kind of evolving,â? Scott said. â??We had two families in here last week that went head-to-head on the Wii with Family Feud. They looked like they were having a blast, and plenty of people just started watching.

Pastimes offers something for people of just about every age, she said.

We get the morning newspaper and coffee crowd; we get vacationers who need to check in with their office and go through email. Theres young and old and everyone in between.

The main room features a flat-screen television, a raised stage area and scattered seating.

We didnt have an open chair for open-mic night. That was a lot of fun, Scott said, and Rolon agreed.

The people that came in with instruments and played welcomed anyone to sing with them. Two little girls sang Justin Beiber songs. It was a riot. People had a lot of fun, Rolon said.

The business, owned and operated by Michelle Iannello, opened in July. The cafà accepts Visa, Mastercard and American Express and can be reached at 796-5770.

I dont think theres anything like this in Cape May County right now, said Rolon, a year-round Rio Grande resident and a student at Atlantic Cape Community College.

Scott will be starting her senior year in high school in September.

We already have regulars, and I can only see that growing, she said.

Morning manager Yesenya Rolon selects items from the arts and crafts closet.

Employees call this area of Pastimes the community family room.

Heather Scott waits on customers at Pastimes.

photos by Ellen Pfeifle

Museum Day 2011 on Sept. 24 means free admission to places such as Storm King Art Center north of New York City and Frank Lloyd Wrights home near Chicago. Its a good excuse to plan a weekend getaway and drop in on a museum youve never visited.

The deal: Smithsonian magazine Museum Day 2011 is offered at selected museums around the country. Check out the list at the website and make plans, whether you stay close to home or are on the road. Fill out the ticket request form online to score the freebie.

When: The offer is good for museum admission on Sept. 24.

Details: Here are some sample savings based on typical general admission prices per person: the Autry in Griffith Park ($10), the Craft and Folk Art Museum in Los Angeles ($7), the Museum of Latin American Art in Long Beach ($9), the Cartoon Art Museum in San Francisco ($7), the Living Desert in Palm Desert ($14.24) and the Marston House in San Diego ($10).

Info: Museum Day 2011

Herbs amp; Spices Catering in Oakland is now offering finger food platters, which are perfect for sporting events.

Alameda, CA (PRWEB) September 25, 2011

Herbs amp; Spices Catering services in Oakland is now offering sporting event party platters for as low as $30. This is available during the 2011 football season and beyond.

Sports is one of the leading pastimes in the US and where there are sports, there are parties. People do not have the time nor the desire to prepare the food themselves, so let us do it for you, said Wendy Shay of Herbs amp; Spices Catering.

Introducing the platters right now coincides with one of the best times of the year for sports. College and NFL football are both in full swing and the baseball playoffs and World Series will take center stage during October. Herbs amp; Spices Catering is now serving sports fans with great foods for as low as $30. This price is perfect for watching sporting events at home, during an office party or at a tailgate party prior to attending the game in person.

Aside from a delicious menu of sandwiches, soups, chili and salads, Herbs amp; Spices are serving simple and gourmet finger food platters. It includes Mongolian beef skewers with red pepper jelly, pulled pork sandwiches, mini burgers, grilled chicken skewers with peanut sauce, Buffalo wings, a variety of bite size wraps and fresh salsa with chips and guacamole. Customers can pick up the food or Herbs amp; Spices can have it delivered for an additional fee.

For more information about Herbs amp; Spices Catering, contact them at (415) 816-3334 or visit them on the web at www.corporatecateringoaklandca.com. They are located at 2711 Encinal Avenue in Alameda.

About Herbs amp; Spices Catering

Located in Alameda, Herbs amp; Spices Catering is a full service, eco-friendly catering company, specializing in an array of catering services, including lunch catering and corporate catering. Founder and head chef Wendy Shay has been dishing out culinary creations since the companys founding in 2001. Born and raised in the Bay Area, Wendy is in the know when it comes to finding the best seasonal ingredients for her culturally diverse cuisines. Between her genuine passion and impressive talents in the kitchen, Wendy has made Herbs amp; Spices Catering an award- winning catering service for clientele throughout the Alameda, Oakland, East Bay and San Francisco areas.

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The Mississippi Delta Tourism Association has launched the Win, Play and Stay Delta Getaway sweepstakes. The winner will receive a seven-day, six-night trip for two through three Mississippi Delta towns with accommodations, entertainment and more provided at each stop.

The Win, Play and Stay Delta Getaway sweepstakes winner and one guest will embark on a Southern adventure through Clarksdale, DeSoto and Tunica, Mississippi and experience the action, history and hospitality of the storied Delta region.

Accommodations for the sweepstakes winner and guest will range from a two-night stay at a casino resort in Tunica, Mississippi to a weekend stay in a Clarksdale bed and breakfast and a two-night hotel stay in DeSoto County.

The sweepstakes prize will also showcase the variety of recreation and entertainment available in the Mississippi Delta region. In Tunica, the winner will receive $225 in free casino chips, tickets to a casino showroom performance and their choice of a round of golf or indoor clay tennis. DeSoto County activities will include a round of golf for two at Cherokee Valley golf course, a tour for two of Brussels Bonsai Nursery and two tickets to a Delta Festival or an event at the DeSoto Civic Center or Outdoor Amphitheatre. Clarksdales blues heritage will be on display with two tickets to the Delta Blues Museum, Rock amp; Blues Museum and the legendary Ground Zero Blues Club. Winners will also enjoy a gift basket featuring items from local Clarksdale merchants.

Enter the Win Play and Stay Delta Getaway sweepstakes on the Mississippi Delta Tourism Association website at http://www.visitthedelta.com/sweepstakes/. Entrants may also sign up to receive the Mississippi Delta Tourism e-newsletter and a free vacation guide. The Win, Play and Stay Delta Getaway sweepstakes will run through October 31 and the winner will be chosen on November 1.

If two of Americas biggest pastimes (and industries) are baseball and the movies, why are there so few truly great baseball films?

Thats the question we posed to several experts — novelists, sports journalists, even a former baseball commissioner — as Moneyball hits theaters. We also asked each to name a favorite baseball movie (Bull Durham turns out to be, as one writer put it, the gold standard), and discuss whether baseball is better suited to prose — fiction or journalism — than it is to the big screen. Below are the responses we received.

John Thorn

[My favorite baseball movie is] Bull Durham, because it is gritty, real, and smart about the subculture that only baseball professionals know. Not to mention that it is funny, as is Major League, which stands up to repeated watching. Not funny but also with much to recommend them are The Natural (better than Malamuds dreary novel) and Field of Dreams, a three-hankie weeperoo for guys.

Baseball movies are hard to get right, as are baseball novels, as are novels or films about the worlds of film or theater. The writer or filmmaker tackling baseball always starts off at one remove from reality, and is always playing catch-up. Baseball is not about baseball, at least not entirely, even if youre playing it. It is about past glories, power transference, surrogated combat and unconscious contests of generation and gender. Some of this is acknowledged in Bull Durham, along with the humor and the realism, which makes it, for me, the gold standard.

John Thorn is the official historian for Major League Baseball. His most recent book is Baseball in the Garden of Eden: The Secret History of the Early Game.

Nicholas Dawidoff

The best baseball movie I have seen is Bull Durham — so funny! so sexy! — but my favorite is Field of Dreams. I know, I know! So uncool! But while its undeniably sentimental to the point of mawkishness, much of the joy of pretty good movies has to do with what the viewer brings to them. I grew up without a dad in the house and because that was just the way it was, this was also just something we didnt talk about in our family. As a younger person I only thought about the situation obliquely, through mediums like movies and baseball players. I think the film gets exactly right that primary feeling of longing for an absent father, and the mysterious way baseball can express so much about how people romanticize the things they dont have but very much want. I remember sitting in that dark theater in my very early 20s, getting choked up and trying to be stoic in public, when suddenly all around me I heard the sound of grown men weeping in the dark. That was a huge moment in my life — there were others! — and I havent since been able to separate the film and the moment. I also liked the cornfield and James Earl Jones.

One of the problems with baseball movies is that baseball itself is so exciting and so dramatic and also real. Most baseball films feature play that seems lame and contrived. That is also true, by the way, of baseball novels. They try to match the reality and cant compete. One reason that Chad Harbachs new novel, The Art of Fielding, is so successful is that it really understands the game. The book takes the time to address the nuances in persuasive and insightful ways that would be very challenging to express on film, and it uses baseball as a backdrop for big subjects like college life, coming of age, the search for beauty, etc. I think that the life in full of a small college baseball team might make an excellent film, especially if the baseball was kept to a minimum. Baseball films that are just about baseball dont work. The reason the television program Friday Night Lights is the best fiction ever filmed about football is that there isnt much football — its the story, among other things, of a distinctive community in small-town Texas and the most convincing marriage Ive ever seen portrayed on-screen. Field of Dreams may be sentimental, but its also a very smart commentary on sentimentality. And by making no attempt at all to seem real, it feels real and true to something original and meaningful.

Nicholas Dawidoffs books include The Catcher Was a Spy: The Mysterious Life of Moe Berg and The Crowd Sounds Happy:A Story ofLove, Madness, and Baseball.

Jane Leavy

[My favorite baseball movie is] Bull Durham — because it gets the language of baseball right, the studied obfuscations and the native dugout patois. Because I want to be Susan Sarandon in a bathtub with Kevin Costner. Because Ron Shelton, the one-time minor leaguer turned filmmaker, allowed a woman to be the apostle of that old time baseball religion without getting all religious about it. Remember the gospel of Annie Savoy: I believe in the Church of Baseball. Ive tried all the major religions, and most of the minor ones. Ive worshipped Buddha, Allah, Brahma, Vishnu, Siva, trees, mushrooms, and Isadora Duncan. I know things. For instance, there are 108 beads in a Catholic rosary and there are 108 stitches in a baseball. When I heard that, I gave Jesus a chance. But it just didnt work out between us.

I dont know why there arent more baseball movies. My funny friend Norman Steinberg, who wrote My Favorite Year as well as the unproduced screenplay of my baseball novel, Squeeze Play, says: Theres a common belief among studios and distributors that baseball movies dont put asses in the seats the way Mickey Mantle did. Then, every once in a while, one comes along to explode the popular negative belief as Bull Durham did and Squeeze Play woulda. Damn.

Maybe its locker room verisimilitude they cant handle. The studio exec who passed on our film told Norman, Take the penis off the cake — a marzipan likeness I had situated on a post-game buffet table. It was her only note.

I do think I know why baseball writes so well. The pace of the game, so infuriating to the gigabyte generation, is writerly. The pauses between innings and pitches, and all those goddamn pitching changes, allow for imagination and the play of words. In fact, writing is a whole lot like the rhythm of baseball: long periods of hair-pulling inaction waiting for the right word to explode into consciousness like a 95-mile-an-hour heater. And when it does, you feel, for just an instant, like the man on the mound with electrifying stuff.

Jane Leavys books include the bestseller Sandy Koufax:A Leftys Legacy. Her acclaimed biography of Mickey Mantle, The Last Boy, is out in paperback Oct. 4.

Roger Kahn

Im not a critic, nor was I meant to be, but I do have favorites. From a non-critical perch my favorite baseball movie is Bang the Drum Slowly, based on Mark Harris moving novel. A double-edged success: the film is faithful to the book and the actors look as though they actually had played some ball. (In truth they had, under a coach the producer hired.)

Worst baseball movie? For reasons too numerous to list, a tie between The Babe Ruth Story and Pride of the Yankees.

More than five different producers have bought options to make a movie of my book, The Boys of Summer. None has succeeded, although we had scripts by such talented writers as Mark Harris and my late friend Ring Lardner Jr. Why not? Funding never materialized and if I understood that I would understand capitalism, which I dont.

Roger Kahns many books include The Boys of Summer, which James Michener called the finest American book on sports.

Joe Posnanski

[Choosing a favorite baseball movie is tough] for me. Id say its either Bull Durham or The Natural, depending on my mood at the moment. Bull Durham is the funniest baseball movie ever made, I think, and so Id probably go with that one three out of four days.

I do think a baseball movie is hard to get right but only in the same way that everything is hard to get right. I was just talking about this with a friend. I suspect lawyers would tell you that most law movies get it really wrong. I suspect doctors would tell you that most medical movies get it really wrong. And so on. I dont think movies, in general, are meant to get it right I have yet to see a movie that gets sportswriters right.

The trouble is that baseball — unlike the law, or medicine or sportswriting — is enjoyed by millions and millions of fans. And so getting it wrong in baseball can crush a movie. John Goodman is a very funny and likable actor, but theres no way he could swing a bat like Babe Ruth. Ray Liotta is a wonderful actor, but most baseball fans know that Shoeless Joe Jackson swung left-handed and threw right-handed, not the other way around. It isnt that movies get baseball wrong more than they get other things wrong it is that it matters in baseball.

Joe Posnanski is a senior writer at Sports Illustrated, and was sports columnist at the Kansas City Star from 1996 to 2009. He blogs here.

Fay Vincent

It is difficult to make a good movie and it is difficult indeed to make a wonderful movie. No one should ever underestimate the challenges of filmmaking. For every memorable film there are dozens of failures. Indeed the definition of a good film is tricky. Is it a film that makes lots of money or a film that meets with great critical acclaim but only appeals to a thin slice of the general audience?

My favorite baseball films are Bang the Drum Slowly — also the choice of Bart Giamatti — and Eight Men Out. A close competitor is Bull Durham. These films were about basic human failures and issues but set in a baseball context. The drama and themes of these films are much broader than baseball. The effort to show the game as part of the film, as in The Natural, often defeats the film maker. Nothing is so false as fake baseball footage.

It is not that baseball defeats the filmmaker. Filmmaking is just a difficult art form in an even more difficult industry.The miracle is not that there are so few great baseball films. It is, rather, that there are so few great films on any topic. Or as someone once said, there are only four story lines in all of film making and every film is predicated on one of those stories. Baseball is the background. It can not overcome the realities of the business.

Fay Vincent was MLB Commissioner from 1989 to 1992. He was president and CEOof Columbia Pictures whenTriStar made The Natural. His books include The Last Commissioner:A Baseball Valentine.

Allen Barra

There is no question that the greatest baseball movie ever is Bull Durham. Its the best written. There are phrases in there that just went into the American lexicon. … [Director] Ron [Shelton] was a former minor league ball player and he knew all the stuff from the ground up.

[So] clearly, Bull Durham is the best. But the other night, there was a radio show and Bob Costas called in, and I was curious to see what Bob was going to say as to the second-best film. In the past, [when] we have talked about this, hes either picked The Natural, which I loathe (it completely falsifies the end of Bernard Malamuds novel), or Field of Dreams, which also sentimentalizes and falsifies the Kinsella novel, Shoeless Joe, that it was made from. [Costas] had the guts to say Major League — [a] much maligned [film] — which is terrific fun: its vulgar, its crass, and its very, very true in a lot of ways. … Its got good baseball in it; Charlie Sheen has a terrific cut fastball. I mean, if hed devoted himself to it from his college career, he could have been Mariano Rivera. Hes got a nice windup too. You see balls and strikes — in what other baseball movie do you see a guy picked off first base? When do they ever bother with that? Also, every other movie ends with a big home run; how do they end it with this? A bunt. I have to say, very seldom do you see a sports movie where youre surprised at the end [as you are with Major League]. Ill take Major League for my second best. …

[One] reason they dont make more [baseball movies] is that there arent more natural ideas out there. Ron Shelton said to me once, They always end these sports movies with a big game. He said, In real life, there is no big game. Theres always a game coming up after. And thats really the problem. I mean, he made one of the best baseball movies ever, and hardly anyone went to see it — Cobb, the biography of Ty Cobb — with Tommy Lee Jones, a fabulous performance. And it wasnt a commercial success. Its hard to find new variations upon an old theme.

George Plimpton once said, The smaller the ball, the better the book — which is why no ones ever written a good book about beach ball. And I think baseball, if its done right, is a better cinematic subject than anything else. … Frankly, baseball doesnt lend itself to television. Have you ever been to a game with somebody whos there for the first time? Oh my God, I didnt realize the ball was hit so hard! Oh, its hit so fast! The routine things in baseball are absolutely amazing. … If done right, [baseball] works better than anything else on the movie screen.

Salon contributor Allen Barra is author of Yogi Berra: Eternal Yankee. He writes about sports for The Wall Street Journal and other publications.

Joe Lemire

Bull Durham is my favorite baseball movie. It gives a taste of minor-league baseball life and a sampling of the eccentric characters that have always populated the game. Nuke LaLoosh is a classic archetype of the all-talent, no-brain ballplayer. So much of baseball — thanks to its long season and short bursts of action following periods of anticipation — is a mental game. And his conversations with the veteran Crash Davis (long on maturity, but with just enough talent to get by) are compelling.

I do think the baseball movie is hard to get right, though I think thats true of all sports movies. Replicating sports action is difficult. And depending on what youd call legendary, I think there have been several very good baseball films (all in their own way): Bull Durham, The Natural, Field of Dreams and Major League, most notably. At least in my opinion, its not like theres a disproportionate number of great basketball or football or golf movies that have been made. I think all sports are hard to capture on the big screen.

Joe Lemire writes about baseball for Sports Illustrated.

Richard J. Tofel

I cant say that I buy the premise of your question. Four of my favorite films are baseball movies — A League of Their Own, Bull Durham, Field of Dreams and my personal choice, The Natural.

What is noteworthy, and what perhaps your question is getting at, is this: Baseball is a subject serious writers love to take seriously, from George Will to Bart Giamatti, from David Halberstam to Michael Lewis, even from Jacques Barzun to John Updike. Yet, our more serious filmmakers have not been similarly moved by the game, and our best baseball films are not as serious — Bang the Drum Slowly aside — as our best baseball writing. Even wonderful baseball films such as Field of Dreams feel compelled to take the edge off the writing from which they emerge — in that case, W. P. Kinsellas Shoeless Joe.

The Natural is perhaps the most extreme example of this phenomenon, transforming Bernard Malamuds dark ending into a fantasy of exploding stadium lights. That may not be great literature, but it is the most fun Ive ever had at the movies.

Richard Tofel is the author of A Legend in the Making: The New York Yankees in 1939 and four other books, none of them about baseball. He very favorably reviewed Moneyball for The Wall Street Journal when it was published in 2003.

Alleged reports of agencies noncompliance with small business regulations and budget disputes in Congress make it even more important for small businesses to fight hard for their share of the government contracting pie.

St. Petersburg, FL (PRWEB) September 25, 2011

US Federal Contractor Registration recommends small businesses take steps to stay competitive in light of recent news reports. A report released by the Government Accountability Office in June 2011 found that seven agencies were not in compliance with federal laws mandating that each agencys Office of Small and Disadvantaged Business Utilization report directly to that agencys head. At a hearing September 15th with the House Small Business Subcommittee on Contracting and the Workforce, the GAO reported that four of those agencies refused to comply, despite a memo sent to all agency heads by Small Business Administrator Karen Mills on September 9th.

Additionally, a government shutdown looms as the House and Senate bicker over FEMA disaster aid funding. FEMAs coffers are nearly empty despite continued demands for disaster relief in the wake of Hurricane Irene, Texas wildfires, the DC earthquake and continued restoration of areas affected by the Joplin tornadoes. If Congress cannot strike a deal quickly, a government shutdown will result after the months end.

These and other issues may negatively impact small businesses looking for government contracts. US Federal Contractor Registration advises small businesses to place a strong emphasis on staying competitive in a tough market.

To stay competitive, US Federal Contractor Registration advises small businesses to thoroughly research their target market. Using tools such as US Federal Contractor Registrations free government market assessment, firms can determine which agencies buy their product or service, how much theyre spending and which companies are being awarded those contracts. This information can help small businesses zero in their efforts on those areas of the market where they can best compete.

Identifying the prime contractors in their industry can also lead to subcontracting opportunities for small businesses. Especially for those firms that have little experience with government contracts, subcontracting can be a way to start gaining past performance references and building their reputation. Contracts awarded to large prime vendors that exceed the simplified acquisition threshold require work to be subcontracted out to small businesses, so staying on top of large contract awards will help small companies find work.

Typically, federal procurement spending slows during the first quarter of the fiscal year, as evidenced by reports posted on the Federal Procurement Data System. Small businesses should use this slow season to build relationships with agencies. By contacting agencies, meeting with Small Business Specialists and attending contracting events, small business owners can build their brand and demonstrate their tenacity when it comes to winning government contracts. When spending picks back up again in the 2nd quarter, those vendors will stand a much better chance at being awarded a contract.

US Federal Contractor Registration helps small businesses enact these strategies by offering a free government market assessment. A list of the top contracting agencies and prime vendors is also available to their registration and marketing clients.

By using the right tools, small businesses can stay competitive and win contracts in the face of adversity.

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Blacksmithing Brothers: Colonial Flair at Colonial Fair

The Glebe House Museums Colonial Fair and Muster Day features old-fashioned pastimes, from chasing hoops to spinning wool.

In Dash of Thyme?s case, the partners have no equity in the brand-new business, so they believe they are not eligible for state or federal relief loans and grants.

?We lost 90 percent of our merchandise and basically had to pay for a new store,? Fox said.

On Oct. 16, the township hopes to attract throngs of people to the business district with a day-long fest featuring 14 bands, a 5K run, and vendor special sales. The hope is that customers will dine at the array of eateries in town, said Ward, the township administrator.

The town?s goal is to raise more than $300,000 overall for distribution to displaced residents and merchants. A seven-person committee made up mostly of local clergymen has been assembled to research and develop criteria on a fair distribution of all collected relief funds, Ward said.

Cahillane, the Rattlesnake Ranch owner, said even he is impressed by the turnout of volunteer help and the willingness of merchants to help each other. His cafe, with contributions from other businesses, hosted a special event on Sept. 11 that raised $7,600 for the relief fund.

Members of the Morris Rugby League helped residents remove waterlogged walls, floors and furniture, as did athletes from area high schools. Congregants from a church in Midland Park came out and distributed ice cream after the flooding, he said.

?Some scenes of the devastation you never want to see again, but at the same time there have been many uplifting things,? Cahillane said.

In the aftermath of the 9/11 attacks, the sports world engaged in sustained moment of silence. There were no pennant races, no NASCAR chases, no golf tournaments and no NFL openers. High school and college football games were all postponed. Even the Ryder Cup got shifted to even-numbered years.

It was the most universally appropriate response when our country needed a pause.

For one unforgettable week in September, this column said on the eve of the games resuming on Monday, Sept. 17, we didnt need marching bands or tailgate parties or fight songs to feel like we were a part of something bigger than ourselves. We didnt need replica jerseys or painted-on logos to be part of a team. There was no Bulldog Nation or Red Sox Nation or any other permutation just one nation, indivisible.

Ive been a sports fan my whole life and a sports journalist for more than half of it, but not until that week did I ever truly understand or appreciate the power and the importance of our pastimes. Ive always believed the its just a game mantra, but it is so much more.

Where else do we gather en masse irregardless of gender, race or creed to celebrate the collective soul? Where else do we ever sing the national anthem? Where did we turn most to honor the true heroes and victims of the chilling day we can never forget? Where did George W. Bush show up on Sunday to mark the solemn occasion?

The former president flipped the coin before the Cowboys-Jets game across the river from ground zero just as he had thrown the first pitch in Yankee Stadium at the 2001 World Series.

We started to heal with the help of our national pastimes, with the flip of the coin and the roar of the crowd, Bush said in a taped address before the opening kickoffs on Fox NFL Sunday.

Sports often get brushed aside as trivial pursuits. Thats fair enough. Someone ages ago (probably fresh out of covering a lengthy city council meeting) dubbed the sports wing of the newsroom the Toy Department. The not-so-subtle implication is that while the rest of the staff spends its days in diligent defense of the First Amendment committing acts of watchdog journalism, the sports guys just while away the hours with our bats and balls.

Sports, however, played a massive role in our nations recovery after 9/11. Its first contribution was setting the proper tone and perspective by taking that week off. It was the most fitting tribute, sending the message to every rescuer sifting through the rubble of those attacks, and every family member still searching for lost loved ones that we all care, and were all with you.

Yet even during that week off, it was sports venues that drew us together. Across the country, Americans showed up at local high school stadiums for memorial services. We sang patriotic songs or traditional hymns. Some prayed, some hugged, many cried in bleachers more accustomed to spontaneous celebrations for very different kinds of heroes.

Football and baseball helped usher us back into that desired place called normalcy. Despite ramped up security and what have now become routine searches of bags and purses, we came together in large groups and celebrated our teams and our country.

Sport has always been this way in terms of unifying. It was at a baseball game in Cooperstown, NY, on Sept. 11, 1916, that The Star Spangled Banner was sung for the first time before a sports event. There are few things more poignant than 90,000 fans gathered in one stadium and standing still for a moment of silence before belting out a version of the anthem.

Its not just an American thing. In 2005, just a week after four bombs exploded in Londons trains and buses killing 52 and injuring 700 more, all of Britain stopped what they were doing at noon to observe two minutes of silence to honor the victims of what they call 7/7. I will never forget the haunting and emotional stillness as we stood on the crushed-shell path beside the Old Course as the British Opens first round halted. Players stood in place on fairways, greens and bunkers, with only the gentle wind in the gorse and a few gulls breaking the silence.

Sports has given us countless memories through our lives to cherish.

It took only one week 10 years ago, when we didnt divide into our chosen cliques, to illustrate just how special they are.

Owls Head â?? Betsy J. (Bosquette) Keating, 53, of Owls Head passed away Monday, Sept. 19, 2011, in Belfast.

She was born April 16, 1958, in St. George, the daughter of Ellsworth and Viletta (Chadwick) Bosquette. As a child, Betsy attended Ridge Church in St. George.

Some of her favorite pastimes were reading, bowling and beano, and she enjoyed listening to music. Betsy loved cuddling with the pets she had over the years, most recently a special dog named Zander. One of her greatest loves was spending time with her children and family.

She was predeceased by her parents and brother, Johnny Linscott.

Betsy is survived by her spouse of more than 30 years, Donald Keating Jr. of Owls Head; her children, Tabitha Keating and fiancà Amos Benner of St. George and Wesley Keating of Rockland; her siblings, Linda Grard and husband, Gary, and Ronald Linscott and wife, Diane; her grandson, Aaron Benner; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

Private services will be held at the convenience of the family.

Online condolences may be offered at directcremationofmaine.com.